Ever called someone out on their behavior, and instead of owning it, they get defensive, make excuses, or flip it back on you? This isn’t just stubbornness—it’s a defense mechanism. Their ego sees criticism as an attack, so they deflect without even realizing it. And where does that leave you? Walking on eggshells, frustrated, and exhausted. Some people will never take responsibility, and unfortunately, you’re the one paying the price. Have you noticed this happening in your relationships? Let’s talk about it.

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